Single and trying to live my best life

Hello everyone! Your blogger girl is back with another banger (I’m living out a fantasy where I get to be an OAP so just imagine I sound like one). It has been two weeks but I missed talking to all you amazing people. Thank you for being here, it means the whole world to me.

I have always avoided writing about my non-existent love life but after having a conversation with my friend Ore, I thought why the hell not? Well, I have been single for a while now and at this point in time, it is more of a conscious decision but it was not always like that to be honest. I tried doing the whole commitment thing and it just did not work out for me at that point in time. I tell my friends that I still want to be single by this time next year, it is just something I want for so many reasons. I have had some people tell me that it is because I have not met the right person and a part of me agreed with them until recently when I told someone that if he is not coming at the right time, then he is certainly not the right person lol.  

There are so many times that I end up developing feelings for certain people but there is just that thing that rings in my head reminding me of all the reasons why I cannot afford to be in a relationship. It gets harder to deal with when you feel like a lot of people in your space are living their best lives and making amazing memories with their partners. I am here to tell you that can do all these things and still be single at the same time. You might think it is easier for me to figure out because I want this, making me different from people want to be in relationships but things just have not worked out their way, but that is not entirely true. I think if more people enjoyed their time being single it would not even pose a problem. A lot of people just try to live and wait to do all the amazing things they want to do when they are in relationships. So, it is more of like stalling the process of creating amazing memories because you are waiting for someone and I do not think it should be that way. This is exactly what I am trying to do, I want to enjoy my life and when it is time, share that enjoyment with another person lol!

I love “LOVE”! So, if you are in a relationship, I am super excited for you that you get to this life thing with another amazing human. To all the single people reading this and hoping to find their own amazing partners, I hope you do so but do not forget to make a conscious effort to live happily and on your own terms. I really just wish we would all make a conscious effort to live our best lives- putting the best versions of ourself forward at any given opportunity and also enjoying every step of the way! Thank you for being here today, you deserve all the love!

Till next time,


My name is Toyosi Adeniran (actually “Adeniran Ifeoluwatoyosi Abigail” which is quite long lol ) and just call me “TheToyosiAdeniran” because I feel like the ‘the’ gives it this catch and makes it seem like it’s just one name. You know the way some people say they are something by day and another thing by night, well I am a medical student everyday (both day and night). I am also an aspiring public speaker and very passionate about people knowing their rights and having those rights protected. And above all, I am a Christian and my faith is very important to me.

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